Turns out i have been gaslit by my server provider and paying 20€ for 8GB RAM/160GB SSD is neither normal nor good
So I'm in the process of moving things to the new server and since my old server was a mess of different services running along each other i wanted to make things simple by having everything in Docker containers. Now I have a mess of different Docker services running behind an incomprehensible arcane nginx reverse proxy configuration
alright we got gitlab up and running now all I need to migrate is nextcloud and most importantly my chost bots
Neither will Nextcloud, so we're down to "I can't get smtp connections out of containers". Not that this gives me any clues

