Do you have any fears or anxieties related to being plural? (Both big ones and "small" ones.)
In no particular order:
- I'm in an Extremely Important Situation and someone switches to the front and has no idea what the fuck to do, and that fucks us over
- Someone switches and they truly do not remember/have access to anything, like the access codes to get into our building/apartment, bank card PIN etc. And, since none of the usual suspects would be fronting, we would have no idea/ability to come up with a sufficient cover story
- I have some suspicions as to the Awful Traumas that must have happened to me to cause DID, but I am definitely anxious that there are more, Even Worse Things in my memory. Because it means my abusers perfectly got away with their crimes, they left no evidence or witnesses whatsoever
- My coworkers find out and I lose my job, and that fucks me up so bad (plus the no more insurance thing) that I end up homeless (this was my fear about coming out as trans for the longest time, so this is not uniquely a plural thing)
- Aether Says Something and causes irreversible damage in one of my relationships. Or gets me fired
- Getting committed lol. But that is a fear we've always had about all the various things I deal with, not just plurality