20s/trans woman/polyam open relationship/queer/disabled/puppy/nsfw writing and nudes (when I get the chance) mdni please. Men can interact but I might be less enthusiastic than usual sorry! Into some things that scar/bruise so may be a turn off to some, please tread with caution when looking through pics if not your thing!
Feel free to send asks if you aren't being a dick! Love getting attention!
Kinks in pinned post! Please at least skim if you wanna do rp asks.
Um. Uh. Just uh. Insert several happy envious sounding puppy whines here.
Felt sooooo good, I have some video but I am not sure of how the site rules work around stuff like that >.>
Yeah, I'd be cautious about that too; even dedicated porn sites that can be tricky.
I have a bunch of chronic pain stuff, but saw that and brain went "sharp stinging in a focused point that I get to consent to and safeword if I need to? ... yes please. That. That sounds immensely enjoyable. All the shivery quivery feelings enjoyable. And a good way to get out of my own head for a bit."
Me too!!!! It really helps me focus in and let go of the other pain, not to mention feels so fucking good 😍😍😍
I keep hearing that about stuff like this and it makes me want to try it so much!!!
Yeah so long as you are comfy and have things for keeping clean and everything it's really fun! And also being careful if you are someone who bleeds a lot. Wanna start out really light too more just scratching until whoever is handling the knife (even if it is you) are confident. Try to also keep in check with how you are feeling before and after, if it feels too much then probably best to leave it or wait till you feel 100% okay with it! And make sure to only do 1 or 2 small cuts when you do first break skin unless you are really sure you are okay! Sorry for info dumping but I just love knife stuff so much >.< but also understand it can be a little tricky some times.
Info dumping good!
And yeah I'm pondering what sort of safety precautions would be important for me. Knowing my body I'm a bit worried about how I heal (often, not well), so thinking maybe like the rule with cosmetics is to spot check for allergies maybe if I engaged in this sort of play I should start with a single cut. Then monitor it over a week while doing my best to care for it, just to get as best an idea possible how my skin handles the healing.
Yeah 100% and obviously make sure your implements are well cleaned and disinfected!
And yeah like it can be hard to get info about stuff when it is kinda stigmatised and when you have your own shit going on medically (which I totally get) so sometimes it is just about your own best judgement at the time.
I used to at least have a vague idea where to find all the best practices safety info for kinks like this; used to hang around some online spaces with a lot of older generation leather family queers where they were sharing a lot of educational info. Sadly a lot of the websites I used to know like that are dead... but I can probably still dig up some of that old knowledge with some work.
Specific info on how that works for chronic conditions though is hard. But all sorts of disabled people like me are definitely into this stuff and figure it out somehow.
Yeah I kinda had to find my own limits and info with stuff but thankfully had some prior experiences with things like this and how my stuff interacts with it so I know what I can handle pretty well thankfully. I wish you luck with finding stuff! If I do catch any info of where to look I will send it your way!
Thank yous! And thank you for sharing! I'm really glad to see just how happily kinky everyone on cohost can be!