like I don't want to get "oooo trans people are more evolved" about it but honestly it's no wonder gender transgression becomes frightening so easily if you're cis. like how mommy disappears when she covers her eyes with her hands for a second.
like showing a houseboat to someone who's thought things had to be on a solid, immovable slab all their life, and who has designed their own home with the thought that there will never be an earthquake
