nuerotypicals will say "that place we drove by" and expect you to remember what they're talking about
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nuerotypicals will say "that place we drove by" and expect you to understand what zhe heck zhey're talking about
Is that I do this, but I am most certainly not nuerotypical. I grew up in a household with people who enforced these nuerotypical expectations. Ironically, neither are they nuerotypical, either! However, they got it from their parents... and well I could easily tangent into a generational trauma segment but I'll hold my tongue for now.
Point is, I have to catch myself when I occasionally do these iconically nuerotypical things, realizing who I'm doing it too has no better idea what the fuck I'm on about then I would, if they did it to me. lmao.