https://addy.dog/links will be updated/maintained with all the links to various socials and things. It'll fill out more and get prettier as I have the available spoons, but getting something up and working was the top priority.
as the for question of why not just use a third party.... no. I don't wanna. Sure linktree can be prettier but why use an unnecessary service when some basic html is sufficient.
made it a tiny bit prettier, but most importantly added steam and twitch