something i hate about "ethical non-monogamy" is the way it implies non-monogamy is unethical and bad by default, and they're doing something different that makes it OK.

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something i hate about "ethical non-monogamy" is the way it implies non-monogamy is unethical and bad by default, and they're doing something different that makes it OK.
I've noticed a pattern of people even in queer and otherwise cool and accepting circles (not ours though obv), being super weird and vaguely judgy about poly relationships, like, they see it go wrong once cause of poor communication and just assume it fundementally can't work? and ignore all the examples of happy polycules out there? its weird