Bigg

The tall man who posts

I'm a writer and indie game dev of indie games with cum in them. One half of @BPGames. Most recent project - Opportunity: A Sugar Baby Story.

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@zippity - goofy porn game screenshots
@BiggHoggDogg - this is where I do most of my porn following & sharing
@BiggBlast - high-volume shitpost/screencap posting

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(EDIT: I've written a companion piece to this post titled Good Behavior Makes Website Features Happen. Check it out after you read this!)

Back when they started making Cohost, @staff had observed that most people would divide their social media stuff between ~three of the Big Platforms - Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Reddit, Pinterest, and so on. The vision for Cohost throughout its development was for it to become a "fourth website" - a place unlike all the other big hangout spots with a set of features & culture all its own, that wasn't meant to compete with the big players so much as coexist alongside them.

Fast-forward to today, with the continued viability of one of those big players (Twitter, obviously) as a large-scale platform for general existence is very much in doubt. This has, understandably, led to a disproportionately large number of Twitter users coming to Cohost all at once. This is good from one point of view - the site needs active users to reach sustainability, after all - but has also created a number of technical, logistical, and cultural headaches as everyone sort of mills around trying to figure stuff out. @staff have done an admirable job managing the technical & logistical side of things, and this post is my attempt at helping with the cultural stuff by making a few things explicit about Cohost's design that might help people manage their expectations.

This Isn't Twitter

That might seem obvious, but it bears repeating. Twitter user punished3liza had a recent popular tweet about Tumblr that I believe is extremely applicable for Cohost as well:

tumblr is really good now but if you come back there and post like youve learned to post on twitter you will be torn apart like a meat pumpkin in the wild dog exhibit. so wipe your feet first

Let's explore some ways in which Cohost is not Twitter, and how some of the bad habits from the latter website are incompatible with the former.

Virality Is Deprioritized

Strictly speaking, it is not IMPOSSIBLE to go viral on Cohost. You might very well be following me due to a post I made in the "welcome to cohost" tag that still seems to be getting a lot of traction. However, the motivation to smash the share button is greatly diminished compared to a platform like Twitter. Posts on Cohost take up a large amount of screen real estate, and when you see that a post has already been shared into your timeline two or three times, it feels superfluous to share it again. This is by design. Cohost is intended to be a slower-moving, cozier space where you can prioritize the content you share according to what you'd like your timeline to look like, without feeling pressured to always surface whatever content is the most popular at the time.

Clout-Chasing Is Discouraged

I've personally observed a number of feature requests from new users both on Cohost and on the support forum asking for following/followers, post "like" counts" and post share counts to all be revealed publicly. This information being obscured is a deliberate design choice. Instead of deciding a post's value by how many retweets it has, users are encouraged to read posts, process them, and determine their value using their brains. Similarly, the concept of a "Cohost power user" is so amorphous as to basically be a contradiction in terms. Sure, there might be some users you see more frequently than others, but it's impossible to know who has a lot of followers and who just happens to be making a lot of good posts right now.

Harassment Is Implicitly Discouraged

Obscuring following/follower lists has another important function, which is that it renders it impossible for users to assign a moral value to the people that other users are following and justify targeted harassment based on that. There's no such thing as quote-tweeting on Cohost - linking back to someone's post without using the Share functionality produces no notification. Neither does typing someone's @ in a post (sorry to everyone trying to ping @staff like that - send them an e-mail or use the bug-reporting feature). Blocking is easy and works extremely well. Nobody can snoop through your likes for thoughtcrime. You can filter out specific content warnings, and tag filtering is close behind. It is extremely easy to tailor your Cohost experience so you never have to see content or people that upset you.

Harassment Is Also Explicitly Discouraged

However, if you are the sort of person who actively seeks out content that upsets you as a justification for harassing the people who produce it, tough shit. This goes for transphobes, racists, fascists, Puritans, etc etc etc basically anyone who has gotten too comfortable on Twitter being able to whip up a few dozen pals (or bots) to mass-report people you hate to get them auto-banned. It doesn't work like that on Cohost - human beings process all the reports and it's very easy for the devs to spot targeted harassment, spam, and other bad behavior. Your shit will just get banned and nobody will ever know about it.

I need to get back to work, but hopefully this post has been helpful in setting some good expectations for behavior here on this new website. Just, you know, operate in good faith with each other and be normal towards @staff because they're working very hard and have done a very good job making Cohost into the cool spot it's turned into.


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in reply to @Bigg's post:

I agree! My main point is that said omnipresent minority is enabled by Twitter's toolset & moderation culture & Cohost has been specifically designed to discourage this specific type of bad behaviour

I agree so much, Twitter feels designed to generate arguments. One of the best things I did on that damn site was using a plugin called "Tweak New Twitter" which got rid of things like the "For You" trending page, which without fail was there to flag up a bunch of really niché arguments about your interests (Every week there was an #IStandWithThisWeeksTerf tag in there) and genuinely getting rid of it improved my mental health so fucking much. It's so much easier to use social media when the platform itself isn't showing you constantly just how many people want you dead 😅

90% of all posting on twitter (at least) is done by 1% of users (at most), so the character of the site is inherently defined by the minority of unhinged power users

source: I'm an unhinged power user

at first it felt like this website had walls cause i couldn't figure out how to find people, but now it feels cozy, and like the forums i was on as a kid. also i like that comments aren't broadcasted to your followers. means i don't feel like i need to save my comments :)

That was a joy to read and thank you.

Obvs there are always going to be a set of people absolutely determined to generate drawmah using whatever tools/features they can on a given site. I kind of don't look forward to finding out.

excellent advicing!!

I think one thing that might be a big shift for anyone who has mostly used Twitter is that posts on Twitter kind of live or die in the moment--if nobody retweets or replies within a fairly small window there's a good chance it'll just drop off into the void because everything moves so quickly. This of course leads to everyone's favorite game, "Did This Bomb or Did Nobody See It." Retweeting it can feel pretty awkward; I remember wholeheartedly insisting that everyone should retweet their own work all the time while feeling like if I did that myself I'd look like I was prissily tapping my wine glass and going, "ahem, I glued this macaroni to a paper plate a whole day ago, in case you didn't notice."

The lack of visible likes and shares means that there is no flop or banger gauge attached to posts when people come across them later, which makes it easier for your page to be understood as a collection of valuable stuff that's there because you want to keep it rather than a dartboard full of hits and misses.

I may have come here from Twitter but I am also a Tumblr user (Twitter user since 2012, Tumblr user since 2010). In the couple of weeks since I've been here, I've felt like cohost is more like the blogging/microblogging companion to a place like Neocities. Similar expectations and guidelines, smaller platform, opportunity to chip in for cohost plus to help devs and the site more directly than the "ad-free Tumblr" or "Twitter Blue" corporate subscription schemes on their respective websites/apps. Since I already use Tumblr and doubt that I will be abandoning my sealed-off private/personal Twitter, cohost is where I intend to post more original content about my special interests and hyperfixations that aren't related to the things I already post or blog about elsewhere. Excellent post! As a newbie, I agree completely with all of this.

I THINK there's a feature request on the forum for a "my likes" feed or something like that, I know it's come up before and the devs aren't opposed.

As for sending stuff to a friend, right now you're limited to either sharing it to the timeline or sending them a direct link via some other app

I love this! Another difference I like a lot is that finding stuff is so much easier here through tags. I like finding new artists, but twitter is just horrible for that. If it's fanart, people usually still use a tag or two, but just art in general? Very hard to find anything good, because in my experience most artists stop tagging once they build a certain following. And that's totally reasonable, because retweets bring in a lot more traffic compared to tags. So unless you already follow many artists, you won't really be able to find the popular ones.

Ya this is cool. I don't really enjoy competing against the algorithm to get my shit seen, but I wonder if that happens to all sites at scale.

My biggest gripe rn is I want to be able to discover other people to follow, but search and tags can only go so far. Maybe in time as other rehosts? Cohosts? Retweets? Reblogs? Start coming into my view it'll work better.

Cool place, at least. Easier to read than tumblr.

Just now finding this post and honestly, thank you so much for it. Twitter was a primary social media for me, but I've used forums for several years since I was much younger and honestly I prefer when sites follow more of forum etiquette than standard present-day social media rules. Even when I initially signed up for this site, I was wholeheartedly expecting just a more chill place without the uncontrolled chaos and that need of "going viral." I'm glad to see that many people here have that same mindset.