Bigg

The tall man who posts

I'm a writer and indie game dev of indie games with cum in them. One half of @BPGames. Most recent project - Opportunity: A Sugar Baby Story.

Other Accounts

@zippity - goofy porn game screenshots
@BiggHoggDogg - this is where I do most of my porn following & sharing
@BiggBlast - high-volume shitpost/screencap posting

Current avatar by @julian!


UnregisteredHyperCadence
@UnregisteredHyperCadence

Especially on this website, where you can just block any tag you don't want to see. People are aggressive about tagging things here (good) sometimes to a fault (having difficulties accepting that sometimes people don't want stuff to be tagged so no one can stumble on it randomly, but clarifying your wishes tends to get people to respect them).

Block the appropriate tags, and you never have to interact with that part of the website. I am friends with multiple dolls, but I have most dollposting/empty spaces related tags blocked because it's a phobia of mine. I have not unwillingly seen a single dollpost in a year. It works fine. Use it, and never be bothered.


fwankie
@fwankie

also if something really bothers you you probably don't want to put that in your bio and let every internet rando know how to upset you


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in reply to @UnregisteredHyperCadence's post:

in reply to @fwankie's post:

okay. i'll bite. i'm gonna assume good faith, even though i wasn't afforded the same. it's a mix of practicality and the sort of culture i want to help foster on this website

bluntly put, it's not in this website's culture, and i do not want it to be. there already exist tools for setting boundaries. it's called silencing tags, and the block button, both features that you are encouraged to use liberally. there is no automated aggregation of any feeds, so curating your feed (and your general experience on cohost) is your own responsibility.

DNI lists make them everyone else's problem, which runs counter to this website's overall culture where we trust each other to moderate our own spaces accordingly. if there's some shit about me that upsets people, i am just going to trust that i am either already blocked by them, or they blocked the particular tags i post in.

the pragmatic bit. they don't work for their stated purpose. they do not establish boundaries effectively. no one reads that shit. no one who is scrolling the feed on their phones on the toilet at 5 in the morning is going to tap through someone's profile and be like "oh shit before i rebug something i better make sure there isn't going to be someone upset at me for having a pokemon shitpost for a profile picture" (not even making that one up. twitter was a hellscape. someone had a beef with someone else with a pokemon pfp, and went nuclear, and started to claim anyone with a pokemon pfp interacting with them was engaging in targeted harrassment. i don't even like pokemon, i just think a furret in jotaro's hat is funny).

it generally encourages antisocial and vindictive behavior, a thing i've seen first hand so many fucking times on three separate webbed sites, where someone got harrassed into leaving the site because they reblogged/retooted/retweeted a funny without running a pre-flight check list of inane fandom drama or proshipper/antishipper purity culture bullshit. i do not want that shit to happen on this website, and while i'm not stupid enough to think that correlation = causation, i do not want that shit in my spaces.

god forbid i say explicitly on my profile "radfems/maps/lolisho fuck off dni". i know people do not read it upon EVERY interaction, that's stupid enough to assume. im just stating MY boundaries online. if you followed me and you get blocked, those were one of the reasons. i wish i could block everyone i hate, but saying "please do not follow me if ___" is already good enough. if you can read my age and my name even my interests, you sure can read my byf/dni. this is discourse is just pointless

you asked me to explain my position more clearly, and i did. or at at least tried. plus i shared some of the lived experience that underpins my position. that's all this Discourse™ of checks notes 5 comments was.

you know, for someone who came out assuming that i must be upset about stuff, you sure seem to be getting upset, repeatedly

at a furret with jotaro's hat

why are you so angry? don't actually bother answering, i'm gonna be silencing you, but maybe take a step back and think about why this, by your own words, pointless conversation made you so upset

have a good one

Oh, sorry, I only get notified if people respond to my post directly, so I didn't see this until now.

Honestly, that one did sour my mood a little. It makes me sad to see people coming in just, ready to fight and assume the worst of people at the drop of a hat. I hope that user chills out a little after a few weeks here, and they learn to trust people again.