a) angry internet weirdos who measure boob sizes with calipers to decide if it's too horny
b) a pack of queer furry pool toy hypno artists
i'm honestly vanilla as fuck and I'll still choose B every time, 'cause the closest thing to a judgemental reaction i get out of them is "oh, is that all?"
and because half my hangups about sex are from my religious upbringing, but the other half are from self-appointed internet morality police
Feeling "it turns out losers who want to wipe the slate clean at any unpalatable shit aren't equipped to provide a nuanced life experience" so damn hard.
I think a lot about the time I'd see someone who was really quick to condemn a bunch of fantasy kinks as "dangerous" while also... being extremely careless with breathplay posts. Talking up how Not Dangerous it is if you just do a blood-choke and presenting it as like an entry-level kink. As if "novices performing erotic asphyxiation while following an online guide they read like twice" isn't already the setup for a ton of ambulance calls.
personally i got tired over the years just of reading the same wankers over and over again say shit like "BUT SNAKES AREN'T MAMMALS" and then act like their manic pixie blorbo is somehow more realistic
you can really tell how selective some people's concept of "realism" is real fuckin' quick, and it usually tells you a fuckin' lot more about them than they'll ever know about you
Talking up how Not Dangerous it is if you just do a blood-choke and presenting it as like an entry-level kink.
They do WHAT!?
i have literally seen people with straight up serial killer/gore fetishes absolutely losing their shit at the thought of adults wearing diapers and colorful clothing or pretending to be four-legged animals online, but THEIR fantasies are perfectly a-okay and normal so stop asking questions because fantasy does not equal reality in THEIR specific cases but it does in YOURS because it makes them feel icky 🙂🙂🙂
(ftr i am not condemning any of these kinks but the hypocrisy still makes me lmao)
"reach age 25 with no friends that aren't secretly afraid of them" yea...
I know some people speed running it: 20 year olds showing up in my dm's because I liked a pic of the wrong kind of sexy lizard, slowly alienating every social circle they touch
meanwhile the mf'ers into clothing tf casually drop pearls of wisdom that sprout like seeds from the finest gardens, cultivated to sustain through the harshest of seasons
just imagining someone saying some incredibly helpful and wise thing and then TFing into a pair of panties that someone else puts on and walks away wearing
Helping others walk a mile in another person's panties(shoes). >u<
i agree. i hate picrew dickheads, i have a Reaction when i encounter them, they ruined half a decade of my internet life
I feel like this needs to get reposted to every single social media platform so I can loudly reblog it on every fucking account I have
This reason right here is probably why I have a much easier and pleasant time talking to my fans/viewerbase than other artists. Especially as an artist who's over 40, I'm just seen as some creepy weirdo who needs to be isolated from others. I have very few friends who know how to filter my strange flaws; they've stayed with me for years, despite my dumb mistakes, and I love them all to death. ♥
Yes, god, well said.
My favorite bit is how they talk like they just absolutely know that "porn normalizes real acts," and then when you actually bother to look it up, every single study on the idea concludes anywhere between "no apparent correlation, seems weak" to "porn correlates with less sexual violence, especially toward kids and vulnerable cohorts."
Which, of course it does. Demented behavior comes from sexual repression. The priests, the closeted, the fascists, the theocratically oppressed. It's denying yourself and hating yourself and building up a complex about it that makes you have massive cognitive dissonance that lets you do awful shit without acknowledging it.
Half these MFs are just falling in line out of fear, and the other half are hiding kinks so dark they're boiling their brains and trying to larp as a paladin online to throw us off the trail, setting everyone else on fire lest we find out their horrible secret.
The weird thing to me is that it's pretty clear that pornography is a media experience like any other, one that has as much artifice and as many conventions as any other genre of film.
Overwrought visuals and grotesque, elaborate aesthetics are all trying to substitute for missing sensations and smells that the medium lacks; this is just as true of goofy orgasm moans or weird facial expressions as it is of the massively artificial Foley crunch of a hypersaturated CGI cracker in a commercial.
i honestly gave up on exploring any kind of sexuality because it just felt like too much trouble.
its not like im DYING for any of it but for me i think at this point im happier passively walking on the other side of the street than dealing with the constant anxiety that im gonna get beaten and dragged through the proverbial street cause im just #different
thank you to every kinky person in the world I love you and you're my favourite people
Always find that those types assume consent is "you do what I say without questions and I get to say anything you've done or will ever do breached my consent" and usually the former with threat of the latter...
It's surreal for me, my relationship with porn and kink is something that would fry their brains. I am of an age where I literally would not have known that trans women exist were it not for niche fetish porn.
feel this shit. used to be the problem, now im the solution, the turntables got to me too
Thinking about all the be gay do crime bios i've seen followed by a dni list longer than santa's naughty list
they ain´t wrong, some of the coolest and chillest people i´ve met have been freaks not only, that but they will even give good advice on the topic of consent and what red flags to look out for. meanwhile the most puritanical hello kitty uwu mother fuckers on the internetl not only will send you death threats and try to ruin your life over, say kink art that hurts no one, but will turn to be secretly abusers as well.
I feel like I understand some of the exhaustion with sexuality a lot of furries have, because generally people are (a little) less sexually repressed than they used to be.
The problem is when they feel like they need to make it my problem.
