One thing that I have learned is that identity/kink/whatever stuff that I don't fully understand or "get" is largely none of my business, so I try to be "live and let live" about it
Like, the world is a rough place so if something needs to [insert thing here] to make it easier to get through, good for them, none of my business
Admittedly my time on here made me think about and strengthen this mentality more