Finally got to a thing in FFXIV that's like "you have to do this 8 player activity with real people, no NPCs" ...so now I need to quickly relearn my whole job so I don't completely embarrass myself in front of randos
The FFXIV community seems wildly split between the most chill casual people you'll ever meet, and people who will berate you for not knowing the exact most efficient min-maxed sequence for the 50 UI elements flashing on your screen at any given time.