Dex

Big hearted fluffdragon...

...fictional ex-90s platformer mascot, nerd, plural, ΘΔ.



Dex
@Dex
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doctorwednesday
@doctorwednesday

It does seem to come down to the truism "if you have to tell people you're powerful, you aren't."


VeraLycaon
@VeraLycaon

Like, speaking from experience both online and to a degree offline, that's... really the lynchpin here. Regardless of how all powerful you are (or think you are), you are still an individual surrounded by countless other individuals, all embroiled in their own lives and in charge of their own decisions. Making yourself feared is easy; but much like an abusive parent demanding unwavering respect from a child, doesn't actually net you anything more than the appearance of respect that gets dropped the moment they have a chance to get away from you. Online in turn, between adults, 'the moment they have a chance to get away from you' is right from the get go, and acting like a Saturday morning cartoon villain demanding worship from strangers is mostly going to get people to go away and not invite you to the next meetup.

Of course much of it is power fantasy. But if you can't break kayfabe from that to pull back and talk to people like equals, that's a weakness on your own part - in many ways it makes you far lesser than Joe Average who's perfectly content not being worshipped by a city full of people they don't even know.

Oh, but what would I know. My only claim to power is that some people call me countess. <3


doctorwednesday
@doctorwednesday

People call me 'doctor,' which I have absolutely not earned through study, though perhaps I've earned it through attitude. n.n But that is not for me to say. Another truism is that certain titles fall flat if you self-apply them; they only have meaning if given by others.


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There's plenty to wail and gnash teeth at in HBO's Game of Thrones, but Charles Dance's weary delivery of a line he knows is going to bounce right off Joffrey's skull, "Any man who must say, 'I am the King', is no true king," was just... mwah. Mmh. Come chew some scenery over here, Mr. Dance.