The urge to post about my long covid symptoms versus the wariness of about people responding with unsolicited advice
The worst is when other disabled people hear me say that I don't want disability advice, but then decide that they're the exception because they're disabled too. Or because they're "more disabled". Or because they've been disabled longer.
It's a real painful betrayal when people are like "I'm more [identity] than you so I'm allowed to be [identity]-ist toward you"