I used to treat "never talk about anyone behind their back" as an absolute moral dictum, and I was consequently very very easy to abuse
Life got better once I started recognizing "harm to self" as a valid component of my harm calculations
I used to treat "never talk about anyone behind their back" as an absolute moral dictum, and I was consequently very very easy to abuse
Life got better once I started recognizing "harm to self" as a valid component of my harm calculations