I've never been out in a public way till recently eand it's all extremely scary but I'm taking baby steps. Not going out of my way to "look" straight. Being a lot more free with how I talk about previous relationships I guess. Admittedly I probably have a lot less to fear than other people though because I'm a 6'10 giant and people aren't quite as ready to start shit with me than they are with a 5'2 queer person