At time it feels hypocritical to complain about vagueposting. I've done it plenty of times(I mean i just did it right now). I think it's might be natural, I mean if you vent about something or someone how else will you get your feelings across. But like at the very least at some point I fear we should just be upfront to someone if they do something you don't appreciate instead of ghosting them. I say this more to myself as a want to get better but I don't do this due to past times where I indeed did confront former friends about shit and it goes south instantly because I go about it the wrong way or because more often than not that person doubles down
