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there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a balance between "Saying what you'd like" and "Keeping yourself safe within reason"
If anything, start with the people you trust the most, and work your way out to discover what you're comfortable saying to the world versus what you think you should maybe hold off on.
I understand all this things. Is just something that happens to my brain from time to time.