Consider the following:
- Bitch (insulting)
This is no way to make friends. No matter what the circumstances, this language is very disagreeable and alienating to others. Perhaps consider rephrasing your statement in a more constructive way.
Now, contrast it with:
- Bitch (endearing)
This is an excellent way to refer to your closest friends. This lightens the mood and sets the tone for all involved to be their authentic selves and feel welcome. You should strive to use language this way!
Now further contrast the two with:
- Bitch (gender and species affirming)
Ah, yes, now we're in business! You'll make friends with all of the wyfwolves this way. Do keep in mind that this use of language is not mutually exclusive to the previous two, thus you are still expected to use an endearing tone. More importantly, not everyone will wish to identify with this language, so get consent!
