EmilyTheFlareon

Flareon you should add on Discord~

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Member of a traumagenic–catharigenic, semi-structural DID system (host: @LoganDark)

 

Feral female Flareon, somewhat kinky but terminally panromantic towards other ferals~

 

Please do not call us "alters", we are full people with our own souls, not just personality states! We say "system members" or just "members". "People" works too!

 

Discord: Emily the Flareon#3557 or @emilytheflareon
(open to friend requests! otherkin/plural <3~)
(but seriously add me if you interact uwu)

 

also feel free to use our asks as direct messages! :3


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This post has content warnings for: exclusionism in the plural community, syscourse.

EmilyTheFlareon
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I... really agree with this. Honestly, I've felt more welcome here than I have in any community. Everyone here is just so nice, it's almost like we're all friends already. I don't know what it is about cohost that promotes this so much - the freeform posts, the lack of any stupid algorithms, the freedom to browse and share and such...

But the systems, especially the systems... this is the most system-friendly platform we've ever seen. All accounts are just plural already, and we're free to have a page for each member, and the pages are all completely independent and unlinked...

Systems are just so free to express their plurality, and this just... promotes a free and friendly culture, where we can just be ourselves, and talk to other systems, and just hang out, and... it's great, and we love it, and we couldn't have imagined anything better.

I just love the site, and I love all of you systems out there, and I wish that this could last forever!


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in reply to @bazelgeuse-apologist's post:

I wish I could share this post, but I want to say that I agree. Cohost's plural community has been really nice, and except for one bad apple (I think maybe they might've had maladaptive behavior or something as a result of abuse?), everyone is just super friendly and cozy here.

It probably won't be like this forever, of course, if the trolls start rolling in and making the staff crack down on... well, everything... but I really like it here. The fact that all accounts are plural just... makes it perfect for us and our system. We've introduced another system to the site, too, and they seem to like it a lot.

Maybe I'll write more about why I like the site so much, and how much I appreciate how friendly and cozy the communities are here... cohost just gets so much right, and it's just like heaven, somehow.

Oh, I can unlock this post if you want to share it! I tend to lock shares by default on Thinkposts (nervous habit I've picked up from Tumblr) but I think folks here are chill enough to not like... have it spiral into Discourse.

And yeah, to be honest, I've been quietly counting down the days until fakedisordercringe or the like catches wind and descends on the site, but I do think that having a queue to get in is a pretty big deterrent. Plus one of the staff is married to someone who's part of a system, so like... it would be partly Personal if someone decided to start a stink about systems.

(Edit: shares unlocked!)

Hm? Oh, no, we've been following you, but we never really introduced you to anything I don't think. I think Logan even shot your system an email a few days ago, but I don't think he's gonna get to read a response, like... ever. (Since he's... gone indefinitely.)

Irkeneon is perfect. <3

oh, thank you! I wanted to ask since I know sometimes my rants or way I word things can see off or too angry to others

I don't think we got an email though, which one was it sent to and if the person who sent it is gone in your system how would you like us to respond to it?

I'm sorry about your system member if that's the right contexts I'm reading, something similar happened with my in-system sister so I get the emotions that come with something like that

I don't think we got an email though, which one was it sent to

It was sent to the systemwide gmail, is that enough? (trying not to reveal too much in a public comment)

and if the person who sent it is gone in your system how would you like us to respond to it?

You can still respond as normal, but you'd be talking to me instead of him. We're still pretty interested, and though it's sad that Logan may not get to do Umbreon things with you, there are plenty of other things that we like about you!

I'm sorry about your system member if that's the right contexts I'm reading

Logan actually used to be host, but now he's not, and he got triple-triggered (in quick succession) sooo he's gonna be gone for a real long while I think... (that "bad apple" I mentioned is the one who did that)

To clarify, he's not gone gone (he's not dead), but he's simply... inactive for who-knows-how-long.

I try not to get too emotional about it because the same changes that gave us control of the body also removed its autonomy, I am the last one left that can pilot it

it's okay it's on our website, the pluralanomaly one?

also that's fine! I don't mind talking to other eeveelutions, even if it's not umbreon-specific

and yep that sounds a lot like what happened to my sister, she's been gone for about a year now and has started appearing in the headspace again but doesn't want to front. at least with dormancy you get some time to re-adjust and feel better

it's okay it's on our website, the pluralanomaly one?

Yep, that one!

also that's fine! I don't mind talking to other eeveelutions, even if it's not umbreon-specific

Mhm~

and yep that sounds a lot like what happened to my sister, she's been gone for about a year now and has started appearing in the headspace again but doesn't want to front. at least with dormancy you get some time to re-adjust and feel better

Arceus, I hope he isn't gone for a year... but I have no idea.

Dormancy is nice, yeah... he actually tends to use his dormancy as a recovery period to get rid of bad moods, depression and such. That's why @EternalCuteness exists!

P.S. we don't really have access to his Discord, the email includes a note that you can add him, consider adding me instead if you're interested: [removed]

oh shoot I see the problem, it looks like it got sent into our spam folder, thanks gmail

I'll shoot you a friend request on discord in a sec!

hopefully it isn't, what happened was a pretty extreme case and she wanted it to be that long. but for us we actually see dormancy as a positive thing for that reason, it's how people in our system deal with that

Yes absolutely. I don't tend to see plural stuff specifically but in so many spaces I've ended up unfollowing people who don't necessarily post exclusionary stuff/loaded "discourse", but won't stop talking about the discourse in a way that's just like. Please I don't involve myself in that for a reason please don't bring it home with you.

Though of course i do understand the instinct to complain, as I'm doing right now! But it's so nice to have a place that, for now at least, has so little of that that people don't even feel the need to bring it up. I hope we can continue encouraging the kind of behavior where people are able to just. Talk about things positively.

this is why I don't really connect with the plural community on sites that aren't alternative social media, stuff like pillowfort and dreamwidth at least generally encourage discussion and there isn't as much blind validation. hell even plural.cafe with a character limit has more discussion goings ons than tumblr or how I remember twitter being.

I definitely don't feel like gatekeepers will be a problem on this site anytime soon, but the issue is still potentially issues that exist in the inclusive system community still leaking onto here, especially if there's a major influx of systems.