you can get feminising bottom surgery and still be a boy if you want, there's no rules!
Oh man, this is doing severals - Lemme just expand the point a bit.
Gender isn't a menu, it's a buffet. It's Lego, it's Meccano - build it however you want with whatever features and elements you want.
Get bottom surgery! Don't! Take HRT! Don't! Wear your hair long or short, wear make up or don't! Its all you baby, no one can tell you you're doin' gender wrong when we Fucking Made It Up To Start With.
Your performance and presentation is valid as fuck. Radically appreciate and love yourself.
See, the problem I have with gender
Is that I'm not even sure whether
I know what I mean when I say I'm a girl because I feel that way
'Cause boys can wear dresses and makeup
Anyone can wear whatever they want
Girls can have short hair and muscles
And that's where I run into trouble
'Cause if I use she pronouns, well, what does that mean?
Am I reinforcing a gender binary
That I don't believe in?
That I don't adhere to?
I say Iām a woman, whatās that supposed to tell you?
Gender doesn't tell you a damn thing about me
It doesnāt tell you what I like or how I act, it doesn't tell you how I speak
