By making horrible vintage recipes I learned from B. Dylan Hollis.
In a more serious answer;
A lot of it comes down to my ability to express myself via how I look. Makeup, fashion are two things that I like expressing myself through. However I also have to bare in mind I’m kind of a hard working farm woman, like my mom, so it does have to balance out with that side of me too.
Hence why normally I look like a dyke. Burly but feminine, a butch feminine energy.