One weird plural thing is feeling... like an outsider I guess, when your headmates don't bring the same energy to something as you do. It feels awkward trying to socially engage in something where we don't just have to be in the mood, but we have the be the person who has that mood. Any meaningful conversations aren't even gonna happen on our terms, it's gotta be when things randomly align.
And then there's our ADHD and cPTSD making it awkward to approach people when we are in the mood, even knowing they'd likely be receptive (i.e., people we've discussed that kind of stuff with before).