I feel like when a trans person/a minority group is slightly mean towards a cis person/white person for being ignorant, the minority is sometimes painted to be the aggressor that's overreacting in that situation because they were not nice towards or coddling the person that asked them the same ignorant question for the millionth time.
it's both cases for me(black and trans) I get tired of explaining things to people who choose ignorance as a shield for their bigotry or sometimes they might actually not know! but when they don't know they ask it in the worst possible way. I feel like people gotta understand that strangers are not obligated to teach you things especially pertaining to their identity or race. feels intrusive. sorry if I come off as a dick I'm just putting my foot(or paw) down.
