kinda wondering if Julia's ex girlfriend now is ever gonna message her. I'm not sure she will given her track record but at the same time I've told Julia it's probably not worth messaging her again for a while, lest she immediately go back to that anxiety of having to wait several days for a reply. I don't want that again personally. I'm not against her sending a message though, just want her to not feel anxious for no good reason again. I dunno.

