what if my ex girlfriend never shared a single current selfie with me because of opsec. I know how stupid this sounds but she did share pre transition pictures with me, but never any current ones so I feel like I've never seen what she looks like. pre transition pictures are not representative of a person after a few years on hormones.
I think if I get back into a relationship I'd at least want the person(s) I'm with to trust me with that they fucking look like. I'm struggling to come up with any other conclusion of why she wouldn't share a current selfie other than "she doesn't trust me enough". She told me it was because of dysphoria and I definitely understand feeling dysphoria, but like.. she shared pre transition pics, so there's no logic there, and her other partners know what she looks like, so yeah I feel like I was getting the short end of the stick there too. Partners should get a pass on opsec because if they don't what the fuck.