I miss the days when it was "could this incredibly cool person possibly want to hang out with me?" and not "do I have the time and social energy to hang out with this incredibly cool person?"

Hi! We're a fairly diverse plural system with various origins and interests! ADHD, autism, likely BPD. Uhm... Yeah, gonna work on this a bit more soon?
I miss the days when it was "could this incredibly cool person possibly want to hang out with me?" and not "do I have the time and social energy to hang out with this incredibly cool person?"