it is insane to me how some people just. do not think people are capable of changing their thoughts and growing over time. like yeah very context sensitive on what that means but like. you do not have to have a timeline of "where this person started to change X thought" for you to think "oh this person has since changed and grown as a person". and instead you hold them to 2 social media posts made 7 years ago because they said "fanservice is honestly not that bad" now when they didn't before. hello????
