I get to say “it is what it is”, motherfucker, you don’t get to say “it is what it is” when you are the one making things is how they currently is!

I get to say “it is what it is”, motherfucker, you don’t get to say “it is what it is” when you are the one making things is how they currently is!
Oh man I hate that nonsense from bosses. You set my house on fire, why did you set my house on fire!? "It is what it is." ???