That weird power dynamic where someone does give you what they need, but they make a big deal about how they are Accommodating your Special Needs even though the thing you asked for is an extremely standard human requirement. Like there shouldn’t be a sharp distinction between regular and "special" needs in the first place, but you know what I mean.
“Thank you for letting me know that going 8 hours without drinking water is a trigger for you so now that I know that I will make sure and try hard to remember that this is very important to you.”
thanks for the water but no thanks for the implication that I am a delicate hothouse flower fortunate to be under your tender care