GwenStarlight

Producing lesbian demons since 1993

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TMA, multiply neurodivergent, ancient by internet standards, poylam and happily married.

I was on Cohost from 11/04/2022 until its last day (10/01/2024)


DevilREI
@DevilREI

I've come to realize that being around "friends" who want to constantly put down the media others enjoy, even "as a joke," is ultimately harmful in a lot of ways, mostly because it makes you feel deeply ashamed and afraid to be enthusiastic about what you love.

I really don't get what motivates people to act like that -- do they think that by denigrating things you like that they will be able to lead you to the "superior" media they like? Or is it just a feeling of smug superiority? I suspect it's a little of column A and a little of column B. Ultimately it comes off as shitty and controlling.

Getting away from people like that has done me wonders. Fuck you, I will gleefully enjoy my trash.


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in reply to @DevilREI's post:

I've met some people for whom it always seemed like insecurity-- it's an act of vulnerability to say "I like X." Whether it's because you're afraid of a fellow edgelord laughing at seeing Kingdom Hearts on your shelf, or a fellow postmodern critical theorist raise an eyebrow at you saying you felt happy eating a cheeseburger at Disneyland, it's always safer to just say "That sucks!"