the neurodivergent "tries to be everyone's support network but has little to none" to "can't help anyone anymore and needs a massive support network" pipeline
I'm somehow doing both at the same time because I'm somehow employed while having a disaster brain, so I help people out financially and they help me out in terms of executive function and funky lil tasks (@Yaodema doing the dishes, for example) and in terms of not spiraling into dark thoughts
