"talking honestly about your problems" isnt parasocial or oversharing but especially in the entirely reasonable context of "having disability make it hard for you to follow through on something"
why do you hate seeing people talk about the strain the labor they perform puts on them? being entitled to whatever your idea of professionalism is from people you have no relationship with is a form of cop brained consumerism
"please, just make the website. dont remind me you are a real person with problems. allow me to pretend your effort is limitless and your failings are intentional"
i have followed people for articulating cogent criticisms of this site. i have blocked a lot more people for reacting in a manner that can be shorthanded as "ew dont be so disabled in public"
you can just block all the staff accounts instead of showing your ass if you dont like the answer to "where is feature" being "someone is sick and it is delayed"
I hate how big tech conditioned us to assume the people working on the stuff we use are faceless entities to whom we can be jerks and refuse to acknowledge the humanity of, I hate it!!!