D&D is so monolithic that it is looks over every conversation. Imagine if you wanted to talk about films, but the only way you could bring up that space was to talk about the Marvel movies because those were all people were familiar with. And I'm not going to even get into whether you like the monolithic thing... But it's a roadblock to every conversation because you have to get over it. And even if you get to indie spaces it's constant conversations about how much the monolith sucks.
Like there's cool community and stuff, but people are so hesitant to venture out of the shallows you will legit get folks saying the equivalent of "Oh yeah I've seen some indie films, you ever heard of Star Wars?"
