To get ahead of my own anxieties: this is pretty much a personal reflection to help me figure out how I want to better focus my queerness in Sealed Pacts and Terra Philia: Prestige in Perversion (more the former than the latter, given the elevator pitches of each). That said, I know a lot of TTRPG creators are 1) queer and 2) trying to figure out how to communicate that queerness in their own work, so I make a few nods towards bringing readers along instead of just leaving my ideas all internal. I'm going to be focusing on three games (Thirsty Sword Lesbians, Dungeon Bitches, and Girl by Moonlight) because they all had successful crowdfunding campaigns, which I'm using as a proxy for "are they big enough to be significant in The Discourse." Notably, TSL & GbM are both published by Evil Hat, while DB is published independently. Any criticism I levy is not to disparage the authors of these works or to call the games bad, I'm Just Analyzing Over Here.
You can tell I'm anxious because I feel the need to write a huge-ass disclaimer. Anyways.