I mentioned this in the comments of Mara's Post about Rules Sizing, that Wildsea does a great job of giving examples for all the rules you're using as you're using them. I've been turning this over for some time today, off and on, as I've been struggling to figure out why games like Wildsea and Numenera and even Shadowrun click much easier in my brain than D&D and Pathfinder. Rambling hypothesizing below.
I want to start with the positive here. Wildsea and Numenera do a good job of mixing the interesting parts of the setting in with the rules detail. Something about the PF/DND books read like... textbooks? Their two columns leave very little room in the margins, unlike Numenera. Wildsea will explicitly create examples as part of the rules text, which helps me immediately grab on to what the game is trying to do (the worst part of the book though is that it uses 3 columns)
I know that what gets me through the dryer parts of Numenera and Wildsea is the fact I get to see more of the good stuff. Maybe it's just the setting is so strong that it carries things for me? I don't know, I just feel more compelled to learn more about how the games work than I do the others.
Maybe it's because I've been familiar with DND for 20 years now, so I just Know How the Sausage Is Made.
I might be coming to the realization that I like fantasy, just not telling fantasy stories. I like fantasy in JRPGs and such, but when asked to come up with a D&D game, I've struggled every time its com up. I can't tell if it's this though, because when I was looking at Beacon, a Final-Fantasy-Ass game, that's ostensibly high fantasy, but it's got enough gription for my brain to grab onto.
Contrast this with Sci-Fi, a genre I don't really consume at all, but I'm fascinated by mech stuff and cyberpunk. I love Sci-fantasy type stuff like Numenera, but I don't do shit with the genre itself. I don't now why I'm like this because I barely watch anything sci-fi. I don't really care for Star Wars. I've still only seen one season of Star Trek (Voyager, season 1), I've only watched one Gundam (0079). Maybe it's easier for me to extrapolate out the urban fantasy type stuff I've seen? I dunno.
Maybe the answer to my original query is just that straight fantasy doesn't click with me right now.
With that in mind, time to genre shift this game further and see if I can make it work. Maybe that will be enough to get my brain to stop sliding off the pages.