dunno how long it'll last but kiri and i have discovered an incredibly potent self-care lifehack: making mutually beneficial trades that leverage our concern for each other.
specifically, she's much more inclined to exercise if i do something in exchange (like the dishes), and i'm willing to do basically anything if it gets her to exercise (and obviously i should do the dishes anyway), and her exercising at all means i'm more likely to stay on top of my own workout routine