Also as long as we're talking about how to embrace cringe, I'm gonna encourage you to reject the dichotomy of "bad people who judge you" and "good people who do not judge you". Judginess is not an attribute of bad people, it's more of a cultural phenomenon that all of us engage in to greater or lesser amounts and that we can all work at unlearning. Try experimenting with small acts of cringe and watch yourself surviving judgement by your enemies, and by your friends. Breathe. You'll make it through this.