'sup cohost. Been awhile, and we don't even know where to start:
This one came out as genderfluid a few months ago, and met a new partner at the Trans And Dyke March at the beginning of September.
Our system developed a bit of an unhealthy weed habit, but also gave up an unhealthy MMO habit and unnecessary ordering in, replacing both of those with walks in our community, eating home cooked meals, and slowly decluttering and taking pride in our home rather than shame.
Being up in the daylight, cooking for itself, walking its spouse to work and helping them set up for the day, encouraging their side projects, their relationships.
The sex is great but honestly, it's everything else that has turned us around. 77 days harm free, and no sign of breaking that streak. While the first snowfall might have put a damper on outside ambitions, we've already been shifting to an upright excercise bike and building a routine that doesn't have to stop just because the weather got cold.
And it's thought of a job it'd like to do again, but rebuilding our aquarium again might take priority over that one first.