just call me a slur already
shoutout to all the forms I've filled out recently that let me prefer not to say
(obviously it is sometimes a useful question, but 95-99% of the time it's at best a proxy for "do you need prostate/cervical cancer screening" and at worst "what's in your pants" or a Cool Loophole to be a little weirdo by treating it as a more important question than "what's your gender" or "what would I guess your sex is" (maybe even worse than that is assuming you should dose medication or judge heart attack symptoms or something based on assigned sex, as if physical transition is merely cosmetic and not magic hormones made from fairy dust))