seriously it's like a fucking super power, how do you roll with the weight of judgement looming over you
there are people who can and do do this and it astounds me every time
they cannot possibly judge me harsher than i already judge myself
their judgement is plebian, mundane, dull, uninteresting. why should i worry about it?
people suck and there is no point getting upset about bad opinions from people who suck
I realized cringing wasn't judgement from others, but me judging myself. So when I strangled the man I used to be with his own name, I sent my shame with him.
at a certain point i realized that my very existence and identity would be described as cringe by many right from the outset so whats the fucking point of even trying to ward the accusations off
