Went to Ju-Jitsu practice last night for the first time in 2 weeks due to a mix of sickness and vacation.
And I'm 2 months on hrt. Last time I practiced my breasts were sore, but yesterday. It was insane. And I wasn't wearing a sportsbra under my gi, just a tank top.
And after a few shoulder locks with me on my stomach my breasts were complaining a lot. It was VERY bad.
Now I'm practicing with another blue belt who usually is one of the instructors. He is around 50 and very cishet. And I was very surprised when he noticed, and went: "Ah they're growing in? Yeah that hurts like a bitch, I'll be careful"
Then proceeded to finish with different locks that didn't leave me on my chest.
And I didn't expect that.
We do usually take care of eachother when someone has a fucky shoulder, but him realizing I was having breast growth and hurting, taking care of me and importantly didn't make it weird was such a positive and lovely experience.
I have an amazing club.
