LemmaEOF

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Hey! I'm Lemma, and I'm a chubby queer robot VTuber who both makes and plays games on stream! I also occasionally write short stories and tinker with other projects, so keep an eye out! See you around~

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NireBryce
@NireBryce

mastodon shows that the behaviors attributed to Twitter are, in fact, universal if you don't put in some self reflection to not engage everything you see as if the author can't possibly know things their post seems to make clear they're deep into talking about.

I'm not saying don't share what you know, but what I will say is that, with people who've got intentional expertise in a thing, and not just from messing around? our conversations go much differently, pretty much every time, in a way that makes the behavior a useful filter for people I don't have to spend much time on the opinions of. so i suppose it has a silver lining.

(and some people do both, that is, on things they've intentional expertise in, we have productive conversation, and in things they... do not, it is very much the same pattern)


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in reply to @NireBryce's post:

(this isn't alluding to you, to be clear, I get that you're just venting)

I haven't seen that to be true at all; as I get older it happens less and less from people who turn out to actually know what they're talking about.

it doesn't need to be inevitable, people just need... a lot more self reflection, and... people with better boundaries in their lives i guess? idk. But, some of this is probably because they have the same rule I do, which mostly boils down to "twentysomethings in technical industries are going to keep explaining things to me the same things they have the past decade, and I just have to live with that but not engage"

because on some level, it's down to endless September. (and in my circles? it's rarely just men doing it. I don't think most cases are intentional, but that's it right there, isn't it. If someone's being serious about a thing, there should be intent in the replies.)

absolutely fair! and a healthy way to deal w/ folks who do that kind of thing! I'd love for people to be more intentional with their communication, and I feel like theres' less of it in the corner of the fediverse i've found myself in, but I've also had a couple people pop up & ""answer"" my ""questions"" by telling me how things work on different platforms, or the simple case I've already excluded. (where questions are usually just exasperated yelling)