when someone says "uh hey the fetishization of bodies like ours makes us deeply uncomfortable and is often straight-up triggering, so please please please be mindful of what you post in this space because while some stuff is uplifting, a lot of fat kink art does unfortunately rely on demeaning stereotypes and cruel language with an eggplant emoji attached" and some folks' response is "oh so you HATE fat people!?!? you don't think fat people can be SEXY???" i always have to wonder whether there's a second, secret language that shares all the same words but with wildly different meanings
like. i was skinny all my life and now am at most chubby, but my wife is fat. damn near all of her characters are fat. most of my friends are fat. Vixie is at least chubby; she's got stretch marks and cellulite and a soft, round belly. the MFBC all has fat characters, from musclegut Maddy to broad and chubby Mabel and soft little Grace.
but there's a distinction between "oh god your big bod is hot af" and peddling fatphobic tropes with a thick sheen of cum over it, y'know??
