hanging out in fully-online queer spaces always depresses me when the conversation turns to visions of the gender-expansive future. kids fantasizing about cis men who get vaginoplasty if they want or "ooh, what if a non-binary person could have a fully-functional penis and a vagina", and I have to be the one to say: my friends, the future is now, the time is here, you can and should argue that these things should be more accessible but estrogen femboys, pussy bears, phallo dykes, and design-your-own-genital-configuration NBs exist and you can read their blogs. subscribe to their onlyfans. say hi on social media, whatever. this is your community, this is who you need to support, find them, embrace them, and be free
hello i am one of the things mentioned above! and i'm doing my best to make it a reality as soon as possible despite all the weird shit i've gotten from other queer people about this being an impossible thing!
