Lizstar

Gay Murr Girl

Liz, Goblin, Part-Time Shark, VTuber, retired speedrunner, author, GDQ staff, Sega fan, "Yuri Sommelier", Walking Encyclopedia of All Things Useless, Twitch partner, general menace. Says "Murr" a lot. This is not a place of honor, views my own, etc. Avatar art by me.


I wish I didn't feel like a creepy chaser any time I feel attraction to trans guys lol

At least I've gotten over feeling like a creepy chaser when I feel attraction to other trans women. Mostly. Sometimes.


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I was wracked with this my entire life pre-transition but got over it within a couple of years, and I actually have a solid sense of how: it was a domino effect from cultivating habits for general social confidence, which mostly boiled down to "fake it til you make it."

I should have been asleep like two hours ago so I'll skip the deep dive here, but bug me on discord if you want to compare notes!

Idk how this will land but I'm commenting on the chance it gives you a little beacon of permission: there is little else in the world I find more validating than a trans woman being into me. To shed masculinity but then find mine ATTRACTIVE? I'm sweating. Anyway, glhf dating and being into whoever you want :)

yeah gods, i... don't know how relatable any of this is to your thing because like look, im a cis guy right?

but a lot of my social groups have grown around trans folks, partly because oops... a bunch of my friends figured out they were trans, and i got socially adopted by another group, and like. that's just my social circles now. there's probably more trans women in there than cis women at this point?

and yeah a bunch of them are like really funny and nice to be around and actually super hot and yeah i've probably got crushes on... a few, lol

but it's really hard to fight thoughts like "i sure seem to hang around a lot of trans girls, this isn't uncomfortable for them or a problem is it?" or "would they even want to receive that kind of attention or would it be uncomfortable and weird?"

and like idk, it's not exactly the same situation. but i think i can empathize with you here?

I think the thing to realize about chasers is this: They, as a whole, do not think about this kind of thing. A chaser is someone who y'know, could say they care about trans people, see them as their preferred gender, even seem like perfectly pleasant people. But a chaser does not care if they're a chaser or seen as one, they can't even comprehend it, because the #1 most important this is TRANS PEOPLE specifically, are hot.

You're almost certainly looking at these women as, y'know, women. So I think you're fine lmao.