I think maybe techies are particularly prone to endless exhausting discourse because they work jobs where if a single person messes up a single semicolon anywhere it breaks absolutely everything that you've all been working on for however long so it's very important to them that everyone do everything correctly lest someone ruin it for everyone. You have to have complete control.
By contrast, librarians have a job that requires doing everything correctly according to a system but we have absolutely no control over the chaos of patrons putting shit in the wrong place endlessly and even when we make everything work they all still borrow James Patterson and David Koontz novels anyway so we just have to sit down and go sure, okay, fine, I mean I put in all this work to create this wonderful browsable collection but sure, fine, James Patterson. And I think that just promotes a kind of radical acceptance about it being okay for other people to be wrong.
