Had a convo about how a pillow is the best shape
Ruling & Drooling
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in reply to @luckyplushy's post:
I tend to default to "bunny blanket mode" when it comes to comfort TFs, just imagining a friend wrapping up in me and snuggling close and being all cozy together~ BUT I do get into a pillow mood every once in a while and, it's also just SO cozy. =u= Dakimakura can be nice too. I know that due to anime culture, dakimakura can have a sexual connotation(I'm mostly just interested in the cozy aspect tho cough), but the idea of being an extra large pillow that a friend can basically wrap themselves around and nuzzle into is just so pleasant and cute U///U
Anyway, I also like your pillow self because it's ALSO pleasant and cute <3
i mean i have a bolster which mostly inspired the concept, but the body pillow is a more fitting shape. It is cozy regardlesss!
Also, I totally forgot to mention it in my first comment but, I think kinky internet people need to start having way more conversations about the implied BOUNDRIES of kink. In other words, the idea that there is no kink outside of sexual enjoyment. Which is bullshit. I have met SO many ace people into transformation and inflation and flattening, etc for completely nonsexual reasons(turns out myself included in most cases).
Comfort, from what I've experienced, is the second most prominent purpose behind kinky ideas/media. It is WILD to me that the internet has existed this long without more serious conversations about nonsexual examples/applications for kink. It can actually be a freakin' mental health tool used for coping! Jimminy Crickets! @~@
Sometimes i want to draw stuff cause i actually like it causally, and I consantly feel like I have to explain myself
Yeah. I feel that. Heck, for all of my life, save for the last few months, I mistook my sensual interest in kinks(and people actually) for a sexual interest. And now that I've got a fuller understanding of my orientation and taken stock of the kinds of things I've been fantasizing about all these years, I'm finding that about 80% of it is nonsexual. And the stuff that has been sexual I may enjoy, but I enjoy the cozy stuff so much more.
I don't know what the best way to, I dunno, break out of the current understanding of kink as inherently sexual would be. Like, would it be a good idea to just come up with a new word for nonsexual enjoyment of kinks? Definitely something to mull over 🤔
Honestly, I think the line betweeen the two is thin and fuzzy, but I do think people are quick to asssume sexual intent.
But that doesn't mean personal boundaries should be broken, oh no.
Mmh, yeaaah. I guess I see the fuzzyness as people enjoying things for both sexual and nonsexual reasons at the same time and less as the two being inherently related(I could totally be wrong about that tho).
I've come to understand different kinds of attraction in a similar way recently. Like... I always assumed I was feeling sexual attraction for people but was just COMPLETELY uninterested in actual sex... Turns out it was a combination of aesthetic attraction and VERY strong sensual attraction. The experience of both together matched up to how people around me had always described sexual attraction (in part due to most people lumping types of attraction that aren't; sexual, romantic, and platonic into those three and treating them like they're an inherent part of them.
Emotion and attraction and desires are all super complex and hard to understand. And due to the nature of academia and psychology, I also have doubts that the greatest minds on, well, MINDS really even understand much more of this than the rest of us do X~X
I mean I wouldn’t have seen it at all if you hadn’t tagged it! Really cute, looks like a cozy form, I should try it sometime…
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