NireBryce

reality is the battlefield

the first line goes in Cohost embeds

🐥 I am not embroiled in any legal battle
🐦 other than battles that are legal 🎮

I speak to the universe and it speaks back, in it's own way.

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email: contact at breadthcharge dot net

I live on the northeast coast of the US.

'non-functional programmer'. 'far left'.

conceptual midwife.

https://cohost.org/NireBryce/post/4929459-here-s-my-five-minut

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jkap
@jkap

it's not fun. it's marginally better here but it's still not fun.

last time i went Truly Viral (sailor moon hotline pre-shutdown) it cost me nearly $2k over the course of a month. you don't want this.


Webster
@Webster

having a viral tweet is a lot of fun if you love receiving five notifications a second, being purposefully misunderstood by reactionaries, feeling like you're under constant surveillance for 36 hours, being followed by droves of normies who will be unfollowing a day later because they were uncomfortable with the niche adult content you usually engage with, and having your words reposted to 4chan for mockery and published by the daily dot for praise without your consent!


capy-bara
@capy-bara

love going viral love having 10k+ followers meaning you are no longer human you are a consumable product to be chewed you do not have a soul and any desire to be removed from the pedestal forced upon you by the insane concept of microcelebrity status or any other complaints about it are reduced to "someone's just mad at being popular" and not being thankful for the gun being held in your mouth as if (gestures to everyone's prior words) is in any way enviable just because posts get seen a little easier

love to see and feel people literally treat you differently or be mad at you or whatever shit is projected onto you for something out of your control that has near-zero percentage transfer into any sort of real life or monetary reward

love being approached at any time with follower count in someone's mind first and anything about me as a person coming third or fourth or later

having someone craft a marionette of you in their mind based on whatever numbers are appended to your account and insinuate the most incorrect shit imaginable feels insane any time i think about it


NireBryce
@NireBryce

So, I think part of why cohost isn't terrible is that there... are comment threads. wait no come back. its also maybe that commenting on things doesn't have a chance to shove the interactions to everyone who follows you

But mostly the comment threads. Because the way most randos engage with my twitter is as if I've posted a Topic to Discuss, Without Me Still Being There. Even if it's only a few RTs but it was a line of them further and further out of my circles.

Well, I guess cohost's success is partially that, but also the fact that the naïve/ignorant and reactionaries are busy fighting each other about how much Cohost sucks because it's got a strong, principled bias against math.


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in reply to @LotteMakesStuff's post:

just unfathomable to me that A) going viral is at all desirable for anyone other than artists who need views to survive and B) people think the injection of posts you didn't ask for into your timeline is in any way a good thing

Seconding, I am totally baffled. It sounds like someone saying "I'm addicted to the dopamine hits you get from predatory social media platforms and I like it that way actually". If that's the case, I can see why they wouldn't like cohost.

100% this; as soon as I realized that "going viral" means inviting the attention of everyone (including haters and bigots) then I stopped wanting to go viral

I've had like two moderately "successful" posts on cohost, and each time, it was honestly relieving to know that I was the only one who knew exactly how much attention my post was getting and that my personal worth online wouldn't be irrevocably attached to the concept of "notes" on it. the lack of numbers here is so freeing; having my notifications blow up here doesn't come with the tidal wave of anxiety that it always did on twitter.

in reply to @jkap's post:

even when one of our posts is just mildly popular, getting like a dozen or so rebugs, it tends to be overwhelming and way too much. one time we had a post on the bird site start to "do numbers" and we literally deleted the post once it started getting too popular because we didn't want to deal with that

oh trust me the cost wasn't just one person. pricing was $0.0085 per minute. the problem is that overall people were listening to around 6 months of sailor moon every month, which it turns out adds up!

in reply to @capy-bara's post:

all this and more are reasons why I think publicly visible numbers would be a terrible idea for cohost. I still think some being visible to the user themself is good (and have said as much on a feature request page's comments) but making it visible to everyone encourages bad behavior. bad in this way, and in the "comparing yourself to others constantly" way.

if they're only visible to the user that the numbers are attached to, then when someone tries to brag about it, you can of course make jokes about how easy it is to fake that data or how silly it is to get too attached to the number. all that matters to the ancient parts of our brains that love this stuff is that the number went up, not how big it actually is