is it sorta has a chilling effect on experimentation and growth.
even if someone fucked up badly, you're not going to get them to realize (as it often is mistake, even out of ignorance) by screaming the same thing as the last 13 people, if it's not a pattern of that behavior, it's often better to point it out and leave.
it sucks but like. I've seen so many people gain great understanding from a back and forth everyone thought was doomed and that can never work when there's so many people who are this kind of reactive, that it's statistically unlikely you won't have someone wildly and strongly misinterpret you, let alone see whatever disconnect led you there.
this time, brought to you by someone thinking i had suddenly did a 180 against a group i belong to because they misread a line and didn't bother to reread any of it, let alone any posts.
buddy. I'm worried what you do to the people just learning this.
anyway the moral of this story is dont be a rando. and that if you treat social media as a petting zoo you can poke at and then leave when things come back to bite you, you should leave and do something else.